But it is more complicated to him. Sell the MILs home, pay off her loans, then you have the finances to take care of her. At this point I don't even care if our son buys her home. Just get it SOLD! Then we will have to deal with the fall out of his other sibs. I feel like sh**, I am having more bad days than good, and I am feeling more resentful, towards all, and that is not right. I guess I really don't have a question, but I think, since the MIL is living here, and her other 2 kids are NOT involved in any way shape or form, her house should be sold, etc etc.