Yes I am still dealing with him, but I barely visit at this point I have been there 1 x in the past 2 weeks.
His neighbor in his second family house tried to help him in with groceries and he lashed out at her, she called him a mean man and left
She said he left some grocery bags on the walkway and she brought them up to his step
He is just plain heinous and selfish and makes comments about me and my husband.
Neighbor also said she noticed he treated my mother like garbage.
I knew he did but to hear someone else say it makes me sad. I know she should have told him to f off but she never did (and surprise surprise it wasn't just about you mom).
He is going to fall and go into a nursing home soon and my sister will lose her inheritance.
As I heard a Doctor say once "Choose your nursing home or your family will".
This was said in a raised voice after (I presume) a reasonable level of conversation that went nowhere. It was not the 1st, 2nd or 3rd chat I believe...
Result. Family DID choose the nursing home.
As to Sis's inheritance, you are correct. He will soon fall and family will get "the call". Hopefully then placement will occur and we can all do a boo-hoo over Sis's inheritance.
Abuse includes swearing, name-calling, yelling, withholding money, food or other necessities, not providing necessary care for her (neglect), hitting, punching, grabbing, any physical hurting, sexual assault, and a bunch of other things.
he may well fall. But why does that translate into your sister losing inheritance? due to cost of assisted living or nursing home? yes the costs do often eat up all the savings.
Leave the old man in your dust.
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