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My mother is 95 years and wants to sell her home (which is in a living trust). She knows she has to pay capgain but doesn't care. She wants to divide up the proceeds (after the capital gain tax and any income tax) and give each child their share (there are 7 of us) in an account that is jointly opened between her and each child. Most of my siblings are against this because they say this will increase their taxes or have to pay taxes on this money. If she waits until she dies there will be no capital gain or taxes because she has a living trust. My siblings don't want to have her pay the capital gains and they know they will get more money for their share if mom waits until she passes. It's a mess. What do you recommend?

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In addition, from what I understand, if Mom distributes monies before her death, she will almost certainly forfeit eligibility for Medicaid, should that become necessary. Never say never; given what my dad had socked away, I would never have IMAGINED that we would be looking at Medicaid down the road. NH care where mom is situated right now is &15,000 per month, with a roommate. Private pay. She's been there for more than a year now, and she's thriving; gained weight, walking better, eating better, more alert and less demented. So that's great! But it's nearly $200,000 per year. The money is going to run out if she lives for several more years (and her family generally lives into their late 90s; she's only 91). So never say never. Get to the eldercare atty asap.
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Take your Mom to an elder care attorney who can explain the tax implications to her. Most elders will believe what an outside professional tells them, as opposed to what their "kids" tell them. Give it a shot.
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Amen to ba8alou, give it a try.
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Only the trustees can sell the house. A life tenant is entitled to part of the proceeds, which your attorney will figure out. That amount has to be spent down before Medicaid will pick up the tab On the other hand, when she dies inheritance taxes would be slim to none. Do not go ahead and sell before she dies, it would be a big mistake for her and her heirs.
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Not to make you angry, but at 95 does Mom really understand what she "wants"? Ir she is trying to leave something for you all, does she understand she is messing that up? And if she is long lived, the Mediwhatever 5 year look back may kick in. I agree with getting a finacial advisor to help explain this to her.. of just tell her the house in not "selling at this time"
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