MIL, especially when sundowning, would “shoosh” female family members, telling them to be quiet because they are “too loud”, and she does it in a really nasty and unpleasant demeanor.
I got shooshed, but I wasn’t loud, I have a soft voice, most of the time others ask me to speak up because they can’t hear me. then after some other family members complained about it I realized she was doing this to others too, it seems to be towards female only.
Families and visitors got this type of unpleasant treatment from her are annoyed to say the least. I have since started avoid talking to her unless it’s absolutely necessary. Others might do the same I think.
We don’t remember her shooshing anyone before. She is actually the loudest person in the family and has always been self centered and narcissistic. Her old way was to talk louder and louder over everyone so no one else has a chance to say anything.
Not sure if this is something anyone else has seen?