I have posted before about my 80 year old dad who is currently living with my sister her husband and their six children. It came to light yesterday that he that is my dad yells at the kids when the parents aren't at home and a neighbor happened to be there yesterday that he didn't know was in the house and heard this. My sister is at her wits end and says he can't live there anymore and so it will fall to me to take care of him until we can find him a home to rent or get him into assisted living which he adamantly refuses to do. He does want his own place again and thinks he can live alone. I guess we are going to have to show some tough love and hurt his feelings which is what we're trying to avoid, but he is scaring his own grandchildren and I don't think he even cares. Any advice appreciated.