I mean we are the ones going through soooo much taking care of them. Do they even know that death is near or even what death is in their last stages? I think to myself that maybe it isn't so bad for them when they completely forget because they become like children again not knowing if people has hurt them or done wrong to them. They become innocent again. Am I just wrong for feeling this way because my siblings have not even seen my mom in over a year and now she has forgotten them and the fact that they haven't come so it doesn't hurt her no more. Which makes me happy, I mean seeing her miss her children was killing me and now she's just so innocent to everything. She is just coasting through life with no sadness and when things happen she has no clue how to feel. Any thoughts????