Why won't my sister help more with our dying mother?

***If it don't Apply, let it Fly***

Why must people attack someone with a different option?
What makes a person feel everyone's response must mirror thiers? It's like some members feel each response must pass with their own personal approval.

Doesn't the chastiser realize they look like an egocentric control freak?

Yes, they will get 👍likes by their little fan club, those like-minded ones, but I wonder....is that their motive, is that what their needing and actually looking for? A pat on the back maybe?

Isn't it obvious this is actually discouraging people from offering help? Maybe someone's advice is just what might help the OP who's reaching out?

Any one experience does not answer every posters problem. Things might not go for them the way it went for you. If you don't like what someone says, pass it up.

This is an open forum, let it be just that. No one person has the right to approve or disprove each answer.

If you want that power and control, start a caregiving blog.