She helps one day a week only. Lies about having a job to get out of caregiving. She won't tell me straight up she isn't up to the job (I asked her). Help!!
I was one of those people, couldn't be hands-on, but I was good with logistical stuff. Since I was dual Power of Attorney, I was able to take over my Dad's finances, thus write checks for his bills, and watch over his accounts. I also could take Dad to his doctor appointments, haircuts, get him groceries, etc. Maybe your sister could help with those things. Something to think about.
I was one of those people, couldn't be hands-on, but I was good with logistical stuff. Since I was dual Power of Attorney, I was able to take over my Dad's finances, thus write checks for his bills, and watch over his accounts. I also could take Dad to his doctor appointments, haircuts, get him groceries, etc. Maybe your sister could help with those things. Something to think about.