I have always been a devoted daughter. My brother who is 4 years older than I am can do no wrong although he plays no part in her care either financially or otherwise. No phone calls, no visits, no nothing and I resent this tremendously. Yet he is an angel and can do no wrong according to my mother. I don't want to care for her ungrateful attitude towards me any longer and wish I could move out of her house. I cannot move because my son and his wife and baby live here too and I don't want him to double his load. I am at wits end and feel like returning to the psych ward for additional rest and help as this depression and anxiety and her making me feel like a monster are almost too much to bear. What a life at 64, I have posted here before but still can find no answers for my situation. Sad and fed up.