My Dad is 94 and lives with me. I’m 62 and recently started working again after being caregiver to Mom who passed 5 years ago. I leave at 8:00 AM and don’t return to around 9:00 PM. I walk in park - meet up with a friend for dinner - go to a social group another evening etc. I cannot take coming home to a house that has central air that my Dad is not turning on. It was 86 degrees when I arrived home this evening and I was livid. He sits in family room in the basement with a fan watching tv but I don’t care to do that and the bedrooms are up here where the heat is. I threw open all the windows - tied the curtains back and brought up my small tubular fan that rotates and put it on the living room credenza. He says that I am not the boss of this place yet! Then he tells me that the a/c is not working - I know he is getting confused as to how to run thermostat - but then again he calls no one to fix if he thinks there is something wrong. I told my brother last week that he is not running a/c and he told me to put it on but I cannot bring temp down quickly if house has heated all day and then my dad turns it off before he goes to bed. I called a friend when I got home to this heat and she says you need to go to a hotel! Like I’m going to go spend money plus take everything to go to work next day - I don’t think so plus I need to take care of my kitty 🐈. 😩. WHAT CAN I DO?