My sister has been the primary care giver of my Dad who is 84. My sister has stage 4 lung cancer now, lost her job and cannot physically or financially help my Dad. She and her husband live in the southwest. Her husband is angry, fed up and will not contribute another dime to help my Dad who has leeched off all of us family members over the years. He's upset that his wife broke her own health to give her Dad the life of a "King". However, he has agreed to pay for 3 month Assisted Living just to try and get his wife back, then he's done with supporting my Dad financially. I have bailed my Dad out of his financial messes over the years and got myself in debt as a result. My husband is sick of this mess. I cannot afford to care for my Dad either and risk losing my marriage. I live in Minnesota and my husband is angry about my sisters illness and how my Dad is more worried about his future than his own daughter's. My husband refuses to contribute any more money to my Dad's well being and will separate from me if I don't unite with him. Not only that, my husband made it very clear that Dad is not welcome to live with us. My sister is dying and all she's worried about is what is going to happen to my Dad after those 3 months are up in the Assisted Living facility. I joined this forum to see if there are others out there in a similar situation and what comfort I can offer my sick and worried sister regarding my Dad's future. Once he's evicted from the Assisted Living facility will he be on the streets or will he be a ward of the state?