Or will they figure it out themselves? What happens then?
My LO went from racking up failed login attempts to more scarier financial blunders. So far, I have been able to fix or absorb the financial losses. Now, he sneaks into his office and tries to money-manage while I am busy with something else and ends up shouting at a bank customer service person because he thinks the bank deleted our savings and CD accounts. (They are safe. He is just looking at the wrong bank)
I am dealing with refusal of treatment issues and setting up hospice right now, so I would like to put off calling an Eldercare Attorney as long as I can. I am really looking for stories, tips and info. The many tips I've found so far work on Alzheimer's patients but not on vascular dementia patients - who have decent memories if the memory doesn't require 'thinking/reasoning". example: The last couple months, I have been paying them before he realizes what day it is and then just absorbing the fall out. But now, he remembers that I did that.
I really do not want to ruin what little dignity he has left and go the incompetency route. Will banks work with me without it? Since I had to sell my 18yr business to care for him full-time, we only have pension/ss income now. So I am getting to the point where I can't afford to many more financial blunders.