We have been caring for my husband's Mom for two years. She has dementia, is 88 and recently broke her hip. We have very minimal care that comes in the home to help and she is no longer able to go to adult daycare. I have been a huge advocate in making sure she has quality of life and it has been our mission to honor that but, it’s really taking a significant toll on my husband's mental well being and I continue to tell him, he and my son are my first priority and we need to do what is best for us. I am not sure any longer that it we are capable of giving her the care she needs and not at the price of my husbands health or mental capacity.