When do you just give up caregiving?

oh god boni, your attitude is right down my alley. youre taking care of mom cause your a selfless person. eff those siblings with a light bulb. theyll die of guilt when mom is gone. you will be a stronger , self respecting person. when my mother passes away im going home to nothing short of a dream home that my son and i built 13 years ago. im going home eventually knowing i deserve that m - f.. weve paid the dues, good things will befall us . i dont believe in a space god or karma. i just think good things happen to good people..

When Mom goes, I'm going to follow her. I have no dream house.I have nothing left. When Mom goes it will be homelessness or death. I choose death.

bullshit. it doesnt take long to start getting your life going your way. ive sacrificed wages for years to care for mom. i have a jar full of nickles and some metric bolts. employment has picked up to a 30 year high. you cant think of moving on when your saddled with care but you can change your circumstances in a matter of days when your caregiving gig has ended. have a little confidence. if you werent brilliant youd have never made a good caregiver. quit beating yourself up boni. when mom has been gone a week i plan to cop a job at the fish hatcheries fucking fish. it dont pay much but the potential for advancement is limitless.

"If you are either stupid, selfish or in denial....STFU and mind your own business. You want it to be your business? Spend TIME with YOUR Mother!"
Words to kick a$$ by, and one of these days I'm gonna use them on my two SILs.
Oh Boni, you're in a bad place....tied to the caregiving stake and the flames are licking at your heels. It might even reduce you to ashes before it's over, but you're a Phoenix...you will rise again. Capn's right - eff 'em!!! You're a strong person, a survivor. You never would have made it this far if you weren't. Worthless siblings are just that. Worthless.

youve grown boni, only an idiot wouldnt hire you and you dont want to work for a mental midget anyway..

Thanks capt and Yaya. I'm only going to take 1 valium instead of the whole bottle and try to get some sleep.Need to be up early for Moms fasting blood test.

Thanks for listening.

“The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them.”
Ralph G. Nichols

boni, those valium are bad for you. send them all to robert ****** 5365 ** rd 252 martinstucky indiana 56643..