Could Mom be forced into NH or AL? Some in family claim I could be accused of neglect! Mom has dementia. Started with 1st TIA, worse with 2nd. Took to neurologist after 1st, and tests came out okay. Delay in going back after 2nd TIA due to Mom's bad intestinal issues. Had to cancel several appts, so finally got her to agree to ER, who never called neurologist. Tried to make more immediate appt after ER visit but because of previous cancelled appts neuro gave appt in one month (now down to 2 weeks). Some family say I could get neglect charge since it's been so long? Mom also fights me on doctors. Would neuro have given pills to slow down dementia, so therefore neglect? I also have fibromyalgia, arthritis and chronic back pain, but so far I am fine taking care of her, but evidently lacking in forcing her to doctor before even with intestinal issues. I'm getting... pushed to call Elder Services now. Seems to be more about neglect than as to if Mom or I need the help. Adds to my stress when I think we're doing okay. Mom also gets upset when I mention someone coming into home.