We were called today by the caregivers of my 94 year old mother in-law living in a nursing home. She is nearing the end of her life. We will be making the trip tomorrow to see her. What do you say to someone who is reaching the end of their life? She is bedridden, and in severe pain. Our relationship has been from afar, not a close one, not for any reason other than we live too far from each other. I want to say something to comfort her. I just don't know what.