I lived in the second floor my landloard lives downstairs..last nite at 1145pm my landlord called asking if I can come dowstairs and of course I did.. Omg as soon as I opened my door the smell was terrible.. her husband (dementia) pooped all over. He had pooped in his face, hair, pooped all over the kitchen floor omg was a nightmare. They don't have kids. They are very nice people but I don't have the stomach for that..I told her I'm sorry I can't help you with that.. she started crying. I ended up bathing the guy, guy was fighting me tried to clean him as much as I could.. saw his private parts omggg such an awkward moment I never ever had to deal with a situation of that nature..and again this is my landloard not my father or family. I was trying to cover him with a towel but I just couldn't he kept on fighting me...Cleaned her floors... I'm traumatized!! Please help.
Is there a 24/7 aid # that we can call? She will pay to take care of stuff like that. I am afraid that if this happens again she will call me. I feel bad!! Can she call the ambulance for that? I just don't have a heart to let her cry but I just can't do that..again.. don't have the stomach for it. And she wanted my kids to help.. told her please never call my kids for this. I felt bad when I said that but idk. I don't wnt to put my kids in that situation. What you guys think? Again this is my landlord not a family member (even if it was a family member or parent I don't think I will be able to do this. My respect for people that do it for their parents. I will def hire an aide if the moment comes).. I tried to do my best to help but don't want to this ever happen again. Please need some advise.