I've posted on here before regarding my father's behaviour. His memory is getting worse but he still dictates and tries to control me even though I'm married and no longer living with him. This happened today. He gave me money recently which I didnt want in the first place, so I put it in the bank. We had a discussion about money, its all he cares or talks about.
and he was lecturing me as always not to spend my capital because my mum apparently spent all HIS capital after he retired and all women are stupid and useless in his opinion. Anyway my husband came in on the discussion, and completely lost his temper with my father who was very shocked as they've never had words before, but my husband is sick.and tired of my Dad stressing me out every time we get together. So he gave him a serve. Long story short, we left on bad terms and I really can't see it patching up as my Father never thinks he is ever to blame for anything. My husband doesn't want to really see my father and neither do I for a while. I don't want to keep his money. I don't want anything from him. Sorry to vent
but it has come to this. I can't even bring myself to tell my siblings as yet. I'm.numb.