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My mother-in-law had been staying with us for a few weeks after a long year in and out of the hospital. She has a compression fracture in her back and had a hip replacement this year due to a hip fracture. Last night she fell on the way to the bathroom and broke her femur right above the knee (Distal Femur Fracture). They will be doing surgery to repair once she is stable, but she is currently in the ICU with a pulmonary embolism and infection of some sort.


What does recovery look like for an injury this significant? She is already weak and was barely able to get around by herself and now this.

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My friend developed dementia as a result of her femur breaking. She was just a beautiful soul and was as happy as could be, but she never recovered from the break. Ask if this was a spontaneous break, so you know what you are looking at for the future.

PE are also life changing, she will probably have a challenge for a while, like months, with being short of breath and needing some medication to help her get through.

I hope that your experience is better than mine, but her age and that she has blood clots and infection sounds very trying to her system. May God's will be done in her life.
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Your profile says that MIL is 63, I have a feeling thats your age. So, MIL is in her 80s?

The problem I see is the Dementia. Being in and out of hospitals and rehabs may cause further decline. People suffering from a Dementia don't do well with change. Then throw in C19 and they are also isolated.

No one can really tell you how things will turn out. If she is weak and with the other two problems, not sure if they can operate. Anesthesia is not good for a Dementia patient either.
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My mom was 90 when she broke her femur. The surgeon said no weight bearing for 3 months. Since my mom was unable to use crutches she was in rehab for 3 months. During the 3 months the rehab worked on upper arm strength, and keeping the good leg strong. Lots of standing and sitting with one leg. We also had bed sore issues while she was in rehab. The took her out of underwear and put her in diapers, mainly because it took two people to get her to the toilet and they could not be bothered to get to her when she rang the bell for at least an hour (this was considered to be a top notch place). PT reported the bedsore because she felt the nurse was underestimating it. Once my mom could weight-bare she did really well walking again. Sadly she broke her ankle 6 months later. Slowly from this point on my mom started slipping. Not really dementia just lost interest in reading and knitting. She could no longer play her organ. I think the anesthesia took a little bit of her each time.
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I am an RN with ICU experience.

First things first, If she has sepsis and a pulmonary embolism, those diagnoses must be addressed first. Expect her to have IV's, anticoagulants for the embolism, some respiratory treatments, supplemental oxygen therapy, and lots of monitors. She will be closely monitored (1:1 care or 2 patients to 1 RN care) until her infection and embolism are not putting her life at risk. Though it sounds cruel, expect that they may have her leg in traction for the fracture and not "fix it" with surgery until her other problems resolve.

When she is more stable, as in moves from ICU to a regular hospital bed, an orthopedic surgeon can do more permanent work on the leg fracture. Depending on the injury, she may have metal on the outside of her leg with "pins" called an external fixator or a long incision with metal rod inside her leg and screws called an internal fixator. She will get pain medication and will need to stay off the leg - probably in the hospital, or more likely in a rehab facility, until the break heals. Expect her to stay in a rehab facility until she is walking well enough per physical therapy to return home. Please do not consider having her do physical therapy at home; she will get more work in a rehab facility than at home.
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Your doctor really is the best judge. Right now they will stablize her. With the embolism she is going to likely be on anticoagulants, and they cannot do surgery while she is. The fact there is also indications of infection is of concern. There's more than one thing going on here. They will have an ortho person speak to you about surgery and rehab, but you are looking at some days before that can go forward. How old in your MIL? Wishing you all the best; hope you will update us.
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My grandad broke his femur up high at age 100. it healed great. The rehab he was in let him get bedsores which was the beginning of the end. Once I sprung him out and took to my house he recovered fast, but was not as active. Visiting nurses came frequently to tend the bed sores....aide came for personal care.
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Imho, my mother was 3 months shy of her 80th birthday when she broke her femur. She was still employed outside the home and then retired from her full time job. She recovered nicely. May I say that she continued to live ALONE in her own home until the age of 93 when it became apparent that I had to live with her. She had also widowed at the age of 47. She never remarried nor did she ever date after she lost her late husband.
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"35 liters per minute of oxygen"????
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worriedinCali Oct 2020
I was wondering about that too. I didn’t think it was possible to go higher than 20 liters. And to get 20 liters you have to connect 2 concentrators.....maybe 35 was a typo?
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I can only share my experience with an aunt who in her late 80's broke her femur right above the knee. After her time in rehab she spent a little time recovering in a nephew's home. She healed very well and now is 91! She was determined to get back to her house. I wish your MIL a speedy recovery.
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Everybody is different and age is a factor.

My husband broke his femur. Pain is around 3 months. 6 months for recovery.

However, I can only speak for my husband. With him, he was up walking the next day in the hospital. He refused any rehab and was driving within a week.

He went to physical therapy a while. Overall, he did well.

The nurses at the hospital said most patients at the hospital with a broken femur take 2 weeks before they get out of the bed.

Like I said, it just all depends on the person and different factors.

Hope all goes well for your MIL.
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