Dad has end stage CHF, no dementia. He got a caregiver 48 hours ago, she spent 2, 3hr babysitting sessions with him. They’re dating now, he refers to her as his girlfriend. He’s now in love and has told us that if we tell her employer, he’ll pay her 6k a month for the rest of her life to make up for the fact that she doesn’t have a job. What do we do? She says she loves him too and we are shocked. He’s 78, she’s 47.