For those who don't know me I'm a caregiver for my 94 year old Mom who has Alzheimer's/dementia. I let my cousin move in almost 2 years ago and I had to evict him because he was verbally abusing me and causing me a lot of stress.
Long story short I agreed to let his cat stay with me (this started this past June). The cat (Silver) is 18 years old and is urinating all over the house destroying it. I think she has diabetes due to her excessive thirst and frequent urination.
I texted my cousin a week ago and told him he needs to bring Silver to a vet. All he does is give me excuses to why he can't. He even brings up the fact that I kicked him out which has nothing to do with a sick cat.
It's not my responsibility to bring Silver to the vet and I don't know what to do.