I provided POA to the bank, advice to note her accounts to call me as POA first, but they still gave her funds she wanted. She would get rides from neighbors that do not know her issues and made me seem to be the bad person here. She is physically fit, so looking and talking to her, you would not know she has dementia as she knows how to fib really well. However, I don't want to take the money out of her name due to her getting seriously upset and can hurt herself. Not to mention the verbal abuse she lash out with. Called the bank and they stated, if they really know the person, they will give her the funds. I advised that she does not have ID or bank card to show as I have them in my possesion. Bank teller said she worked in a bank for 30yrs, and they do not need ID or bank card if they know that person. Does anyone know what else I can provide the bank institution other than the POA and noting accts without taking her name off of the accts? Any advice will help.