Okay, I said this before. My dad fell and went to the hospital. Had a UTI and sepsis. Went into AL. Been there a week. He is considerable worse with his dementia but can fool many by talking about what he remembers. He is 98 and still driving as well. Has macular degeneration and cannot see see very well. Cannot hear either. His house was a complete disaster. We're in the process of cleaning it out, putting in all new windows, doors, kitchen, baths, etc. As it was a crumbling nightmare. So my brother lives in NJ all his life and had little to do with our parents. My dad LOVES him and treats him like a god. I'm kind of the trash. No really! Before covid he was out to eat with us 3 times a week and I seen the decline but kept him going to keep him happy. Since covid he has declined rapidly. He has fallen many times and there was always someone to pick him up. Last time he fell he was crawling around on the floor for over 15 hrs. That's when the neighbors found him and called 911. So since he has been in AL for a week and my brother has called him and the nurses everyday. Telling my dad my hubby and I are no good and he should get away from us. I know he wants the little bit of $$ my dad has. He filed for bankruptcy recently. I'm not touching anything as I know my dad wants him to have it. I'm just holding all his cards until he's well. I have dpoa for almost 7 yrs. Also guardian. I spoke to the administrator and she told me my dad cannot go home for a while. Until he is well enough to walk and kind of take care of himself. Well today, the AL called and said he is scheduled to go home next Tuesday! I think my brother bugged them all the time until they just want my dad gone now. I am making arrangements for him to come to our house for awhile until I can get his home cleaned out and redone for him to live there. And there's driving. My dad wishes to continue to drive. He has run into his kitchen with his car and only god knows what else he's done on the road! But he wants his keys back as well.
Now, my name is on the deed with him. To avoid probate in FL. My brothers name is on his bank account as POD. No issues so I thought. My brother has made my dad yell and scream at me every night since he's been in AL. I know cause that's what my dad tells me. It's been a big mess and the stress is almost too much. My question is will my brother be able to come down here and take my dad to another attorney and change everything to his name? I know he's doing all this for the $$ right now. Otherwise, he doesn't do anything but call him once a month. Maybe seen my parents a handful of times in their lifetime. Not sure what to do or if I can do anything. I cannot speak with anyone who will give me a straight answer. Any suggestions would be a big help.