We're out of money. Can my grandmother get help to stay home instead of going to a nursing home?

Your profile says your grandma needs 24/7 care and has dementia. Unless she has the money to pay or family members willing to give up their lives, she’s going to need LTC. There isn’t enough public funding to pay for round the clock home care.

Generally no, unless your grandmother has the funds to pay you, you will not be paid. There are very few exceptions to this.

If she owns her home, she can sell it to pay for nursing home care.

There comes a time when caring for an elder is more than one person can possibly do on his or her own.

Here is information about survivors' pensions: https://www.benefits.va.gov/pension/spousepen.asp

Here is information about aid & attendance and housebound benefits: https://www.benefits.va.gov/pension/aid_attendance_housebound.asp

Neither is likely to provide a huge amount of money but sometimes every bit helps.

Dsprgr, if your grandpa was a vet and qualifies himself, then your grandmother should also qualify. Rosered6 provided you with the links below. I just went through the application process for my 93 y/o dad. I made a video about the application process if you are interested, it might help you regarding what to expect. Here's the link: http://bit.ly/2YnwSZL good luck to you!

You can contact Senior Services some have programs that will provide a caregiver that will come in to help out.
Is your Grandmother a Veteran? If so it is possible she may be eligible for services through the VA. Was Grandpa a Veteran? If so would she qualify for any benefits?

There are some Medicaid vouchers available for home care. A family member can sometimes use the waiver to care for a child at home. For an elderly person less likely for a family member to be paid by Medicaid. Even getting a waiver doesn’t mean a caregiver will be assigned. There are shortages and waiting lists.