His executive functioning is suffering (I witnessed his doctor tell him this at the VA) and he is in complete denial. He has put down money on a house, has leased two cars (we are already trying to go after the dealership for doing this) and is in debt to many friends as a result. My Mother has mental issues and is totally dependent upon him and will not stand up to him in any way. We are afraid he'll kill someone drinking and driving (which he's done previously) and/or himself and Mom. We have begged him in every way to stop driving. He and she are now living in an assisted living; they are understandably fed up as he's constantly harassed them to work a deal with him on rent. They let him give notice and now we're on our own. No one in the family can afford a lawyer.