He is always putting things on facebook about how family is so important and how you should love and respect everyone but he has not talked or even asked about how his mother(my gram) with dementia is doing? All of my other aunts and uncles have been pitching in along with my parents to care for my gram. My uncle is my Godfather but I feel like he is a complete hypocrite. It hurts the rest of my family to know that he has not asked about how my gram is even doing. We don't understand how he can just not even care? We don't get along with his wife because she has caused so much trouble within our family. How can we get him to ask or even visit my gram?