Should we look into hiring a social worker, for instance. My husbands 90 yo mother is becoming more senile, and her vision has decreased considerably. Mom still drives and according to her eye doc, it is time to take away the keys. She also has a boyfriend who is in his 80's and I know this will be a rough transition for him as well. I noticed on one of the posts that someone asked if their mother was the wife of a serviceman (she is). How does that affect her care? So how do we approach this?