My dad became ill starting in Feb. He was in and out of more than 8 facilities. I eventually brought he and my mom to my home town to my home to seek medical help. Despite all the procedures, tests, and hospital stays at different hospitals, he passed away a few weeks ago in my home with Hospice. Mom has been living with me through all of his hospital stays. Her dementia has caused alot of confusion, but, miraculously, she does know that dad is no longer with us. I packed up their 2 bedroom apartment and moved everything back to my home. Mom is living with my husband and me. If I am out of her sight, she is calling for me. She makes me promise I won't leave her alone. I am looking at an Assisted Living facility near my home. I am very tired and know she would be better with a more structured day and with women she can make friends with. But, is it too much too soon to do this? Someone suggested a transition with an Adult Daycare. Some have said to do the Assited Living. I want what is best for her. But, I need some time with my husband, too. He has been patient and understanding, but I know it has been hard on him. I feel so guilty even looking for a place. I am not an only child, but I am handling all the medical, the insurances, the bills, etc. What should I do?