I'm feeling trapped. There have been so many dramas/sagas recently, what with a vascular op that we have been waiting for since diagnosis in November (finally start of May), us moving house, then dad getting an infection, problems with his neighbours and then two short stays in hospital and the ongoing associated care after. I am so jealous of these other family's that get to have holidays while my life revolves around the monotony of care. Dad needs daily trips to see the nurse at present as he has developed a seroma at the sight of his surgical incision, this is half term and my dad is so grumpy, the children are resenting it and so am I. Sounds selfish but I'm afraid that's the truth of it. Any advice?