He's sitting in my husbands chair. Since wife died, In Law, sits in my husbands lazy boy from 4-8pm. I had told my husband he is a guest in our part of the house, and should be in his wheelchair or on the couch. I am very agitated with my husband sitting in the guest spots in our small living room. It was my idea to have his parents move in, but after 6 years of it...I am starting to regret it. Seems like my husbands priority is his Dad, and I am 2nd. I don't socialize much with his Dad, just enough to be cordial. I wonder if I am just being selfish and unreasonable. I leave the house to have some privacy. My husband never goes into his dads side of the house to visit with him...it is always in our side of the house. His Dad never made friends, has none...wants everyone to talk with him, he doesn't talk as the wife he had did all the talking, and has no interests...has spent the last 30 years in front of the TV set. Doesn't want to go to senior center, my husband takes him out with him on all the errands he runs to get him out. My husband isn't a big talker either. There aren't a lot of common interests between him and his Dad, so there isn't a lot of conversation. Don't know what to do about this situation...didn't know it would be so irritating.