I take care of my dad alone with three sisters nearby. No help at all from them. Not even a phone call to say hi to dad, let alone a visit from them. Now because dad will be 95 next month, and most likely his last Thanksgiving, of course they want to include him in Thanksgiving. They actually asked me to bring him to their house! He cannot stand, walk, and is bed-bound. (He has cancer and dementia and is on hospice). Shows how much they know about his condition! I could go without a holiday right now. Just wondering how everyone else is handling it. And all my best wishes to all of you.