My father had a drug overdose when I was a child and he is now in a wheelchair in a nursing home. Recently he is constantly asking me to take him places. I don't mind this every once in a while but I don't have time to be his caregiver. I am only 22 and I have a young family of my own. The nursing home will take him where he needs to go but he tells me that they won't, so I will feel obligated to take him. I love my father and don't want to be rude and hurt his feelings. Help!