She keeps saying she wants to go home. I had to move my mother from assisted living to a memory care unit because she was wandering and unable to dress herself. Now every time I call her she immediately says she needs to go home or she wants "to go back." The memory care unit director says she is doing well and participating in activities but I don't know if I can believe it since my mother starts every conversation with me with a request to go home. I am afraid to visit since I think that will just make things worse. when she was in assisted living I used to take her out shopping but the memory care director recommends I not do that until she's been in memory care for at least a month.