Sun-downing what does it look like and when does it happen?

Garden Artist..when I worked in LTC I had a resident asked me to throw her in the ocean..i told her I couldn't do that I would get in trouble for that. I worked 2-10 PM and it was a full moon. The residents always seemed a bit more off the wall when there was a full moon. So I think the moon does affect the mind in some way.

Busy, my sister told me the same thing. She was a psych nurse; they often had new patients brought in by the police - people who were affected by the moon and engaged in very strange behavior.

I've wondered often how the shift in water in our bodies could produce such bizarre behavior. Or is it the moon that's causing the changes? Is the fluid in our brains shifted during a full moon, starving our brains in some way?

Thanks for sharing your experiences; it's helpful to know that others have observed similar changes.

Babalou, I noticed a couple of months ago that whenever I talk to Dad on the phone and it is after 4pm he seems to be living in another era, or he is stuck on a subject and won't let go. Prior to 4pm he is still fairly sharp for someone who is 94 years old. It has been so tough for me to wrap my brain around what is happening, it still rattles me big time.

I know it seems strange that sundowning can be present when it is still daylight outside.... at 4pm the sun is blazing into my Dad's apartment. I think sundowning is an internal clock, more set to standard time then day-light savings. Our elders grew up in standard time and much of their younger adult life.

Just another thought - it's not called moondowning, but there may be some factor or role the moon plays. It does have the power to affect tides, and our bodies are something like 2/3 water.

As usual, I'm getting an education here. Interestingly, there WAS a full moom this week. GA, thanks for link. I'm going to start charting these isues that mom has.

And when sil emails me with this stuff, im going to say "I'll take care of it".

I don't know if it's urban legion or truth - but I've heard many times that emergency rooms are always way busier during full moons.

Sunnygirl, I think you hit on a perfectly logical explanation - sensory overload. I'm wondering if people who sundown would still do so if an afternoon nap were taken.

GardenArtist, good point about the napping in the afternoon... I know there have been times when I have dozed off watching TV only to wake and wonder what day it was :P

Wouldn't be surprise if elders who show signs of sundowning would do the same thing, but not be able to snap out of it as quickly. The other night around 8pm my Dad called and said his name was put in place to be Vice President.... ok???... so I played along with it as rattling as it was to me.

As for the full moon.... any time my male cat becomes an out of control silly handful I will glance at the calendar and sure enough, full moon time.... never out grew it, he's 15 going on 2 during these lunar events.

Rainmom, the hospitals also have more births during the full moon.

According to some of the articles I'm reading, afternoon nsps are NOT good for sundowning, they interupt the sleep cycle.

I think this is one of those areas that requires lots of research, clinical studies and the like.

For my mom, i think she may need reassurance alone that we'll take care of whatever the "problem" is.

Hi Babalou
I read somewhere once that sundowning that usually occurs with lowering lights and shadows can occur at different times of the day for different patients. So the fact that it isn't very dark when your moms agitation occurs may not mean it isn't a form of sundowners.
I also read once that if humans are not affected by the moon then they would be the only organism on the planet that isn't.
I read on Web MD the following.
"If you feel tired or frustrated at the end of a day of caregiving, your loved one may notice, even without you saying anything. This can upset them, too. It’s normal for you, as a caregiver, to have feelings like that. Try to be aware of how you manage those emotions if you think that might make a difference." Your SIL may be stressed when she comes in the afternoon is what I read into this. We don't all react/feel the same when we interact with others. Unless your SIL is feeding or attending your mom in some crucial role, perhaps she might switch her time of visit to see if she gets a different response. I know you've mentioned before that SIL has a different approach than you on some of the medical tests and treatments.