I need help, please! I am 24 years old,and I am currently working on my Masters degree online. I have been living with my grandmother since I was a baby. I have helped her my whole life. I have had to end relationships with boyfriends, give up friends, and not really have time for myself. I love her so much, but I have gotten to the point where I am just tired. I went away to pursue my bachelors degree and drove 1.5 hours back and forth every other weekend to make sure she was okay. I have some of my aunts to help, but we are from a large family and more people need to step up. She recently got sick and had to stay in the hospital for a night..however, she had a light stroke again and now her left side is hard for her to even sit up or stand up. I am also working a part time job nearly 30 hours a week to support myself although I do stay with her until Im ready to go. I dont know what to do? i love her, but I am tired of having to stay home every night and having no social interaction with others my age or feeling lonely that I cant date the way I want to. its not fair that my aunts can dress up and go drink at friends' houses around the next block, but I am stuck with grandma.I dont think it is right. I have to keep turning down good opportunities because everyone wants me to stay with her. I dont want to stay anymore. Im ready to just find me a job, and relocate where I can live my life as I want and get started into a career and have friends and a life again. I am so miserable I have had to go to counseling and get put on anti depressants. my mom will stay for 5 minutes and go home. She wont help, but says for us to call. and wont even come see grandma until like once every 3 weeks and wont come until she is sick or something. What do I do??