My mother -n- law passed away last month. His sister was keeping us updated on her situation we talked to Moma everyday on the phone so when the sister said she was getting worse neither one of us understood that because of phone conversations with Moma.. My husband could not just leave and go back home new job had to wait until it was really close to her passing (Moma always played games with her health no-one believed her) that's another story. So, the day we got for my husband to go back home she passed that night before he got there. Now, he is still feeling hurt about this, but the sister is sending emails to him taunting him about not being there and that she was the only one who was there for the Mother. Let me explain this family I married into is very dysfunctional the sister and my husband were the only two who did anything for my Moma, the other two dis own her and called her by her first name. If is was not for me this sister I am speaking of would not have been close to Moma as well. I was very close to her, and it hurts me to see this, but I have to be strong for my husband as well. I am the one who usually have the answers, but this time its my husband dealing with family. Just wanted to know how should he handle this situation with his sister???