SIL is such a bitter person. She loves to get my goat. Will tell me my mother has food restrictions, but will take those same items to mom with a pic on facebook. Or has told me the pin number changes at the front door every month. Each time I have asked the professionals and they don't know where she heard that info. Claims she called everyone from ER, but my phone doesn't ring. I had told mom that I would bring x item next time I visit so she makes sure to say that it's a restricted item or change moms mind before I visit the next few days. Mom is still after almost 4 weeks waiting to get her phone in her NR room so now she isn't sure mom wants one. Even though she always chatted during TV shows every day. HELP??