We're going to be moving out of state and taking my mother. She has short term memory and is 95. We moved her in with us 4 months ago. We haven't told her. We're probably moving in 3-4 months. Should we be honest with her and let her know what's happening or keep it quiet until the last minute. Really don't know what to do and need help. She's healthy, but can't be left alone. Her granddaughter lives down here with 2 little children that my mom adores and will miss very much. Mom is also very stubborn and tries to be independent. What should I do. GEP.