In September, Mom came out of rehab with a DVT in her leg. The doctor in the rehab center prescribed Eliquis, and they sent her home. Last Monday (11/19), Mom's PCP sent her for a ultrasound and told her to make an appointment with a hematologist. Mom did not make the appointment because she was worn out from many Dr. appointments in October and November, and then her niece was visiting over Thanksgiving.
Today we finally got the ultrasound results, and she apparently has a non-occlusive DVT, which means the clot is still there, but it is not impairing blood flow. Her PCP will not renew the Eliquis script until she sees the hematologist. So today I made the hematologist appointment which is 21 days from today. We have enough Eliquis for 10 days.
I really don't think there is a big risk of the DVT getting worse until the appointment, but the whole episode has made me think that I ought to take over the task of scheduling Mom's Dr. appointments from now on. I had never considered doing this before; Mom has always been able to handle this by herself. She didn't want to see the hematologist and I figured that was her choice. But lately it seems to me that her judgement is lapsing. Maybe I should take on this responsibility, when necessary?
What caused her to fall and break her hip, is the question... once you start following the trail of breadcrumbs back, you can find that with wonderful 20:20 hindsight you spot a lot of problems that weren't obvious at the time.
With her medications and appointments, I would strongly suggest that you make it all or nothing. If you only help out when necessary it leaves too many potential gaps in the communication chain.
In order not to make her feel you're bossing her around, duplicate diaries, or make notes in her diary, and continue to consult her in everything; but make sure that nothing happens without your knowledge. Reassure her that you are acting as her secretary - but any secretary worth her salt Needs To Know Everything!
I'm thinking it's may be PAD or some circulatory problem. And I'm hoping the hematologist can help us out with that.
PS. I got the appointment bumped back to 12/13!
The reason the doctor won't renew the px without it is that it is critical to check your mother's on the right dose. If the clinics still work the way they did when my ex was doing them, you can reassure your mother it's a quick in-and-out with nothing to fear - but it is vital.
How is she doing in herself? What landed her in rehab?
Please follow up on the RX, DVT can be deadly. The risk of her not being on the blood thinner for 11+ days is too great in my mind.
My concern is you have 10 days of Eliquis and the appt for the Hematologist is in 21 days and your mom has DVT and you think it can't get any worst! It can get worst. This can go south in the matter of minutes. Call her PC and tell him/her that your mom's appt for the Hematologist is in 21 days & if he/she could give her a Rx to cover the days until she can get to her appt.
I am not trying to scare you, but this is nothing to fool around with this is why her Dr is sending her to a specialist.
Good Luck!
It's just that you could easily end up with not only the haematologist but also a vascular surgeon and an orthopaedic surgeon and a neurologist all wanting to chip in their two cents, quite apart from all the appointments that have already put your poor mother off ever seeing another doctor as long as she lives and which are going to need follow-up. One person acting as ring-master can be a real boon.
A small hospital in the extreme West of England is rather far for you to go to see the lovely Dr Alner; but this lady collated all the existing notes from cardiology, neurology, renal, PT, orthopaedics and haematology; ordered investigations which found out some useful things; and came up with a co-ordinated plan focused on quality of life. So if you can find a geriatrician (gerontologist, in the US?) with a similarly pragmatic but sympathetic approach, hold tight to that one. Would your PCP perhaps recommend one?
You might want to ring the PCP meanwhile and ask whether you ought to be doing anything about the more affected leg - keeping it elevated, keeping it mobile, or what.
Or maybe he can prescribe a cheaper injectable (Lovenox or Heparin) to tide her over.
I wouldn’t skip the Eliquis EVER with her having a documented clot and neither should the PCP so they should work with you.
Good luck!
If your mother has arthritis then PAD wouldn't be my first thought, I must admit, I'd be wondering about her spine - not that I'm qualified to know. Does anything help to relieve the pain or improve the sensation of numbness? Was this happening before she had the fall, or only since? Is there actually anything to see?
Her left ankle (the leg w/ the DVT) can get swollen, usually after a lot of walking, although sometimes it is swollen when she wakes up. I suppose it is possible that she injured her spine when she fell?
Thank you for the advice on becoming a secretary. Really, I don't think she will push back on making her appointments. She was thankful that I handled the hematologist thing. The hard part may be getting her to agree to go to the doctor!
After my mom forgot about a couple appointments (even when the dr. office would do a reminder call the day before), and when she did go I'd ask her how it went and which doctor she saw, she had a hard time remembering that very same night, I started scheduling all her appointments and taking her to most of them myself. This started about 3 years ago which was when she was diagnosed with dementia. Plus the dr. didn't want her to drive anymore due to both her dementia and also her Parkinsons affecting her reflexes, etc. So now I take her to her regular doctor, her eye doctor, her nephrologist, and also to get her 2x/year bone density shots. The aids that come 2x/day take her for any bloodwork that is need prior to her appointments, most times, unless I am in town anyway in which case I will take her for bloodwork also. I'm 2 hours away so for me to go there just to take her out to the hospital or clinic for a blood draw is a bit ridiculous when the aids can take her for those. I wish the visiting nurse that sees her every Friday to do her med box and take vitals could do the blood draw but she can't seem to find her veins. :( But I do take her to all her dr appts now so 1) I know she went and 2) I get the "full story" about her conditions since I can't count on her to tell me accurate info anymore. I schedule them all and put them on my phone as well as on a deskpad calendar that is kept on my mom's dining table for both her and her aids.
One time my mom had her appt with her nephrologist scheduled, which is hard to schedule because his appts have to be the first Wednesday of the month as that's when he is in the office that is in her city. And she got a reminder call from her regular doctor about another appointment on that same day, but in the morning instead of the afternoon. She freaked out and CANCELLED the nephrologist appt because she couldn't understand that having 2 appts on the same day at different times was okay. I had to scramble to un-do what she had done since the nephr. is hard to schedule. Luckily the nephrologist office called me otherwise I would not have known! Yikes!