i live in NC, caring for an 86 yr old man. his family all live out of state. they 'made' me get a credit card in my name but i pay his bills with it and ive gotten behind on keeping it paid- thats right i pay for it as well! he is currently in the hosp for dementia related issues and his dr wants him in a skilled nursing home- i have NO WHERE to go. his family made me get rid of my car 2 yrs ago- ive been caring for him for 2 years. the 1st year i begged for payment of some sort. i also pay for my own food. he and his kid's can afford payment. they refuse to take out taxes as well.. HELP PLEASE!!