Mom has degenerative memory loss, diagnosed 2 years ago. For the past year she has been living with my husband and myself. She needs constant care due to memory, balance and other issues. I am getting absolutely NO help from brother who lives 5 miles away. He claims he's too busy, no money, etc. You name it, he has come up with the excuse. We really need sometime for a get-away and are trying to find respite care in our area, Ravenna, Oh. Mom is NOT reseptive to this, says she can get an apartment. I am so stressed. All I do is cry after she goes to bed. HELP!!!