I have to pay bills for husband and keep his medication ordered. I am his rep payee to manage the S.S. but I guess medicare has new rules about who can order. I have tried to explain how much easier it would be to at least be his medical POA but he feels I will have to much control over his life that way. He has no idea what medication he takes or what it is for. How does one explain to someone who no longer has very good reasoning abilities? My daughter has tried to help also, but he won't budge. We have to live in separate locations because his anger issues and I am really frustrated at trying to help keep things paid and him safe.