Memory care is $4200-4400 month! My 80 year old Mother has dementia and is getting more confused every day. I’ve looked at several asst living/memory care facilities. They range in price from 2900.00, with added tier fees and flat rates of 3200-3400 a month inclusive, but memory care is another $1000 a month. Each has a non refundable $1000 community fee. These prices are too much. I’m thinking of just having her live with me. What have others done?