This man paid himself grandly for 6 years at $500.00 a month and he made a few trips to Alaska and went on cruises during this period. He does not have the income to do this and used up all the monies available. He also signed over land to himself from the estate. I found out I am heir to the property and also the executor, but there are thousands of dollars worth of debt from the nursing home against the property and if I decide to pay off the debt to gain a clear deed I must also PAY THIS MAN for the land that went with the property that he signed over to himself,so the property will not be split in half. I really think he planned this out so I would be forced to give him more money. What can I do about this guy? There is no family relation involvement here between us.