My DIL, in her mid-forties, suffered an aortic dissection two years ago. That condition is stable now but her health continues to deteriorate. She has developed congestive heart failure along with so many other "lesser" problems that it's heart-breaking to list them all. She's certainly depressed and there are indications of mild cognitive problems. Now she's skipping medical appointments, at least partly because of money worries. My son, her husband, tries to encourage and support her, while working full-time, doing all kinds of odd jobs for extra money, and doing everything else---literally---that has to be done, including keeping life as normal as possible for their little boy. There are additional complications having to do with her family---too much to go into here, but they're serious. Is there a forum for him? For me, in trying to love and support them all?