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Hubby has Parkinson's, and is at a stage where he will argue about anything! He is in wheelchair, and can't really get around by himself. Sleeps on & off all day in his chair. Somedays, he is so hurtful to his care taker! Hope the next stage won't be as bad! Are there any meds that can calm him down. He was a very loving caring, and this stage is very hurtful. Any and all help would be grateful.

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This downward trajectory is unlikely to get better and likely to get worse.
I would understand that there comes a time when it is no longer possible for family and loved ones to render care when what is needed is several shifts of caregivers with several caregivers on each shift.

It is almost certainly time now for placement. This should be lovingly explained. There will be tears, possibly rage, and that is normal. This is a horrible loss and it is worth mourning. I am so sorry.
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Parkinsons is generally a progressive disease, worsening with time and bringing dementia along with it. You are probably seeing dementia symptoms with your husband's hurtful behavior now. There are many medications his doctor can prescribe, including calming meds. Definitely schedule him an appointment and speak to his doctor about his ugly behavior beforehand. You can send an email in hubbys portal.

Best of luck with a difficult situation.
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