Is it okay to hate your family?

proportion is such a difficult concept. you dont want to be a pushover but somewhere in my 55 yrs on earth ive learned to ignore someone who is trying to disturb me. end of life care is rough on all involved. i dont particularily like my two sisters. everything they say has to be reconfigured to align with the facts but were still family and may someday need each other.
my 25 yr old son works with me and drives me nuts but im trying to work on being more patient with him all the while holding back and letting lifes lessons introduce themselves to him in his own time. so yea, proportion is so difficult. im going to go cut wood in the wet snow today because he has sold his share of the wood cutting for pot money. hes imperfect but only a maniac would have stuck with me for this many years.

Well, I have been up all night, again, due to the added stress my sister puts on me, so YES! I HATE that bitch!