And you are worried for their financial health? My dad is 83 years old and has always been a penny pincher. Over the last few years we have seen him change mentally but are unable to get medical support to back this up. He is making very bad financial choices, such as saying he is going to start a business and has several hidden storage units full of stuff he has bought. He won't tell us anything or my mom. He says it is non of our business and we don't know anything. We have no idea where to start as some days he is completely component but those days are getting more and more rare. We have talked about declaring him incompetent but they don't know if we have enough evidence as it is very hard to do. We are now getting calls from neighbors and church members that are very concerned. We feel helpless and short of letting him drive them to financial ruin we don't know what to do. Talking to him hasn't helped just makes him more aggressive and non trusting. He refuses to let us help or know what he is doing. Any suggestions of who to talk to or what to do would be appreciated.