I am the caregiver to both my parents (85 & 89). I've been doing this for 3-1/2 yrs. 24/7/365. I have only had approximately 10-12 days away from their home over the last 3-1/2 yrs. I live above the garage, so I do get away to sleep! My 2 siblings live 2,000 miles away (both). How can I get them to understand this is too much for me and to have my parents realize this is unrealistic to ask anyone to do. I'm 52 yrs old and not knowing when it's our time, I'm scared my life is passing me by. What should I do? I know I need to be here for them but I need help!