7 months ago, I brought my grandma to the hospital, because she was feeling some discomfort on her side and I informed her I was taking gram. Now mind you, I been taking taking care of her for 9 years and my grandma is the apple of my eye. I would never hurt her. No one comes to the house, except my sister's son. He always comes to spend time with us. My sister decides to see her in the hospital and the next thing I know when I see gram is the social worker yelling in my face telling me they called APS. I cried my eyes out. To make a long story short, my sister was busy slandering my name to doctors, hospitals, and rehab. She changed my grams health proxy to herself without consent of my gram. She put on a show for everyone and eventually the truth came out. I could of went to jail and gram could of been placed in a nursing home. Thank God that didn't happen!!!! I even still see a pyschologist because everything she did and said killed me literally. It was a tramatic event for me, because I am really loving and caring to my gram. Now her son was over today and tells me his mom wants to come for a visit tomorrow. She knows what she's done to me and gram and she hasn't even attempted contact until now! I feel PTS coming on.
You need to shut your sister out of your life and your grandmother's life. You need to set up boundaries to help keep negative people away from you and your grandmother. {{{HUGS}}}